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March 12, 2007
Switching
So recently Ive been getting to know my more dominant side and switching roles. Its funny how many doors open with just a change from bottom to top, sub to dom, boy to Sir, baby to Daddy.
Today I started the day with John picking me up around 10:30 and we headed down to Hayes Valley to meet sukk and spunky. The meeting was to discuss being a submissive switch in the leather community and what exactly our roles were. The question that seemed to come up what "What do we get out of it?". We talked a bit about how a submissive really does get to call some shots, and the concept of other Sirs who think that they can throw orders just because you are a sub. I may be a boy, but Im not *your* boy.
With that said, we also discussed switching roles. I brought up my new found interests and it was nice to have friends around me who dont judge me based on my experience in the scene. I can ask questions, and not be made to feel any less of a person because I dont know. I learned a long time ago fear in asking, usually ends up in stupidity.
After the meeting, we swung by my place and I picked up Zim. The 3 of us went back to John's house and watched the first few episodes. John and Spunky had never seen it and sukk and I were revisiting our love for the show again. There are so many references that I still get by watching the cartoon that are definitely adult in content but subtle enough to go over any kids head. I now know that a SIR is also a thermos.
Finally we ended up at the Eagle Beer Bust being sponsored by Cheer SF. We met up with Daddy Richard, and Ace showed up briefly. I have no idea where he ran off to.
We all did some playing in weird roles, and as Daddy Richard put it once it felt like a Star Trek/Buffy alternate reality episode where the subs were getting dominant. sukk licked my boots and we made everyone who walked by us pet the puppy. It was great hanging out with him more. He's a great guy and I always enjoy seeing him.
Finally I met a guy at random (go figure shy ole me). He's cute and I actually made a date with him for Thursday. Im excited and cant wait
Posted by Des at March 12, 2007 02:24 AM